tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287965.post111801370558910850..comments2023-10-03T07:28:18.822-05:00Comments on Brenda Bradshaw Blog: Sex vs. RomanceBrendahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17083327647412477394noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287965.post-1118550994059427932005-06-11T23:36:00.000-05:002005-06-11T23:36:00.000-05:00Dana, just because I can write about it, doesn't m...Dana, just because I can write about it, doesn't mean I live it. <BR/><BR/>The grass isn't always greener.Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17083327647412477394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287965.post-1118466761067340652005-06-11T00:12:00.000-05:002005-06-11T00:12:00.000-05:00Welcome back, D.Welcome back, D.Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17083327647412477394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287965.post-1118451613957937512005-06-10T20:00:00.000-05:002005-06-10T20:00:00.000-05:00Personally, I've always felt that the difference b...Personally, I've always felt that the difference between sex and romance was sex left you breathless from a physical workout and romance leaves you breathless from a moment in time with someone that you never want the moment to end.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287965.post-1118350131096803542005-06-09T15:48:00.000-05:002005-06-09T15:48:00.000-05:00Great post! Sitting here, right now, I miss those ...Great post! Sitting here, right now, I miss those days. My marriage right now is in a stagnant phase and sex is something I don't feel the need for. My husband does. I miss it though. I wish I could feel again. It's these darned depression meds. I'm damned if I take them and damned if I don't.Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11113653140609328612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287965.post-1118204326747812482005-06-07T23:18:00.000-05:002005-06-07T23:18:00.000-05:00I'm with you Brenda... it's what leads up to the "...I'm with you Brenda... it's what leads up to the "slick sweat, panting and wanting and clawing and needing anything, everything, right there in that immediate moment", and what follows it that makes all the difference!<BR/><BR/>I've often said, the most sexy woman on the planet is one I find attractive, and I *know* wants me!! (That happens to be my wife!)<BR/><BR/>Those moments of 'afterglow' can be every bit as pleasurable as any of the other 'moments'.Billhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07338910000372628114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287965.post-1118092785803894042005-06-06T16:19:00.000-05:002005-06-06T16:19:00.000-05:00So...what are you trying to say?So...what are you trying to say?Karyn Lyndonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13571088798286939007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287965.post-1118063303000351152005-06-06T08:08:00.000-05:002005-06-06T08:08:00.000-05:00I have yet to figure out how one can have passion ...I have yet to figure out how one can have passion without engaging the mind. For me at least, if you don't engage my mind, chances are you're never going to be engaging any other part either. Even if it doesn't turn out to be a long-lasting relationship, it still has to be part mental for me as well. It's a shame more men don't consider this when they try to hit on you. They may have a higher success rate if they did.Kelly Boycehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15459592836145655997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287965.post-1118024412927378212005-06-05T21:20:00.000-05:002005-06-05T21:20:00.000-05:00In the argument of which is better, love or passio...In the argument of which is better, love or passion; I choose love for the very reasons you mention. Passion without love is momentary and of little lasting meaning. Love, if true and deep, will <I>create</I> a passion far more intense and satisfying.<BR/><BR/>Of course, the sterotypical man will say that HIS biggest sex organ is something <I>other</I> than the brain. And for those who truly feel that way, I'd say they are right. Why? Because their brain MUST be very small to think that way.Duke_of_Earlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08358279187766938462noreply@blogger.com